Project Sunflower founder, Kelly Bonifas lost her mother after being diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s. Kelly’s mother, Sheryl was diagnosed at the age of 53. She and her husband Dave resided in Arizona. Fortunately with the support of family, friends and caregivers, Sheryl was able to stay home for the 10 years she fought her battle.
“I still remember the day she was officially diagnosed. As a nurse myself I knew deep down what the diagnosis was going to be. But along with my father and sister, I had a little denial too. She battled 10 years with Alzheimer’s. I watched my dad fight for her to be as comfortable as possible. Still he needed a break, and he needed to take care of himself. We had a little home health and then hospice, but that still wasn’t enough at times. A nursing facility was out of the question and around the clock care was paid for out of pocket. I think he would of spent every last dime if he needed to. Nevertheless the need was there. It was so nice to be able to go out to dinner with my dad and know that mom was safe and taken care of.
She was 64 years old when she passed. My mom and I never spoke directly about the diagnosis. She never complained, and always put others before herself. She lived for helping others. Whether it was baking a cake for a coworker, volunteering at school, or sewing a baby blanket for friends, she was always present and giving her time to others. Spending time with us girls was her life. She was the best mother a daughter could ever ask for.
The need for respite care, medications and emotional support are substantial. My story is one of many. I know there are other stories out there to be told. It is my passion to help those who don’t know where to turn to. Whether it be respite care, medication or even resources, I believe Project Sunflower will make an impact on the here and now of those affected by Alzheimer’s and other dementias.”